We all have a story and a reason as to why we are the way we are. There are many parts and pieces of our lives that others won’t see or experience which is why I chose to write about my story and upbringing. I have always been quiet about my story and where I truly come from which makes this post come from the heart. In this post I will share my story and how it lead to my Purpose and Passion.
The Start
When I think about my childhood and growing up the only word that comes to mind is complex. Between losing my little sister and my parents going through a divorce you could say I had my hands full throughout my upcoming. With all the craziness and hard times I found comfort in two things; spending time with my cousin Teegan and show cattle. Often times these two things came in one package and we were always spending late night in the barn to get away from the outside world. Teegan was not just family but someone I leaned on throughout a lot of my upbringing and when I needed him he was always there. Teegan was full of talent with anything he decided to do whether it be sports, show cattle, or advice. In 2013 he became the first person in our family to win the market steer show at the Indiana State Fair. Regardless of what he was doing or who he was talking to he had a way of impacting those around him and leaving a mark on many peoples hearts.
Unfortunately on June 9th in 2016 Teegan passed away in a farming accident which left my family and myself in a situation that was anything but normal. I found myself in a place that I wasn’t comfortable in and the struggles were unlike anything I had ever been through. Going through life without the person that you depended on most was something that took a lot of adjusting and getting used to. I lost myself in this process and no matter what I was doing I felt like happiness was something I would never experience again.
The Change In Pace
However things changed after Teegan’s parents donated a traveling trophy for the champion market steer at our state fair. When my brothers and I found this out we had a new goal and it all revolved around winning that trophy. That summer we worked as hard as humanly possible to ensure we had a chance at success at the Indiana State Fair. Our slogan that summer was “For Him” and the goal and work ethic never changed. That year at state fair we got the great honor of winning grand champion market steer at state fair and it truly changed my life.
Throughout my life I have learned one thing: the situation alone will never define you but your perspective will. Although there has been many hardships throughout the duration of my time on this earth I would never change or take back the things that happened. I say this because these hardships and difficult times have made me who I am and molded me into the person I will continue to be. I challenge the person that is reading this to always keep your perspective in check and remember that things always happen for a reason and that reason is creating your purpose and passion.
About The Author
Photo Credits: Bender Photography
My name is Ross Brumbaugh and I am a junior here at Western Illinois University majoring in Agricultural Business while being on the livestock judging team. I am originally from northeast Indiana where my brothers and I own and operate Brumbaugh show cattle. The Livestock industry has always been a huge part of my life and within this post I will share my story and how I figured out my purpose and passion.






















