Growing up, I have always lived in a town with a population of 3,000 or less. While this number may seem large compared to other small towns, my graduating class still only had 62 students in it. Having this small of a graduating class, allowed us to grow close to each other, and we were also able to grow close to the other members of our high school. I come from a very tight knit community filled with community members who will always be there for each other, especially when a family is facing a tragedy.
My community can come together, like nothing I have seen before, to support a family in need. I have witnessed these heart-warming acts more than once. One of my best examples of my community stepping up, was close to three weeks ago. Three weeks ago, a young lady in our community was tragically killed in a semi wreck. Renee and I were often mistaken for sisters, and sometimes even twins. She was 21, a week away from turning 22, and one of my best friends.

The McGrew family is a large family, to say the least. They’ve been in our community for decades and are well known and loved by many. They’re often known across different states as well through the showing of their Belgian draft horses. Needless to say, our entire community felt the shockwaves sent out by the loss of Renee Ann. Although none of us wanted this to happen, and we would do anything to have her back, the past three weeks have shown me what it means for a rural community to become extended family. The support the McGrew family, and her close friends such as myself, have received over the course of the last three weeks has been incredible. Members of the community were right beside the family, as soon as word traveled, supporting them and doing whatever was needed to help out. The Riden’s Farm Supply crew stepped up and got the shop ready for the funeral and celebration of life by cleaning, cleaning, and cleaning some more, then hauling in over 200 chairs to be used on Tuesday.
Tuesday morning, over 300 people showed up in remembrance of Renee. As a close friend of Renee’s, this show of love, for such a sweet girl, meant more to me than anything. It showed how loved Renee was. Tuesday was spent shedding tears, exchanging hugs, and more importantly, laughing at our favorite memories of our girl.

“Living in a small town…is like living in a large family of rather uncongenial relations. Sometimes it’s fun, and sometimes it’s perfectly awful, but it’s always good for you. People in large towns are like only-children.”
Joyce Dennys- (quote from goodreads.com)
Rural communities are one of a kind. In our area, they’re easy to find, but people who have grown up in a city will never know the bonds that form in small towns. Small towns come together in times of joy, heartbreak, anger, and celebration. Everybody knows everybody in a small town and your fellow community members will always have your back. They will make you feel like you are family wherever you go. However, in a town where everybody knows everybody, everybody often knows the details of your life, even the ones you may not want them to know. This can be a negative of a small town, but from the experience I have, I know that the love of a small town will always outweigh the negatives of a small town.
About the Author
Hello everyone! My name is Paige Sargeant and I am currently a Junior at Western Illinois University, where I am majoring in Agriculture Education. I am from Bushnell, Illinois and grew up as an active member of the local FFA and 4-H chapters. I enjoy spending time with family and going on trail rides with my horse, Perky. At WIU I am active in Sigma Alpha, Collegiate Farm Bureau, the Ag-Vocator Team, and Collegiate FFA. Thank you for reading my blog!













